The guy who froze
Marc's write-up goes here.
The Fluid Confidence Method
If you're a man with his life together, solid career, in shape, well dressed…and can speak to anyone, except when it comes to the head-turner that walks into the room, watch the 10 minute video below.
8 years coaching · 15 countries
One of the biggest reasons that holds men back from walking up to a girl they really want to talk to is not having someone to push them over the line. There is a very small window of time to take action in, and if you don't…your mind will come up with every reason why the interaction might go sideways. She was with friends, she looked busy, she might think I'm a creep, I need another drink. What if there was a way to overcome that pressure and learn to use it for you instead of letting it work against you?
You've built a solid career, you're in great shape or working on getting there, you've watched 100 breakdowns on what to say and how to say it. But that doesn't ever change the fact you get stopped in your tracks when the time comes. 95% of the time it's because you need someone beside you who holds you to your word. A friend usually won't do this. They are in your same position so they don't know how to push you. They don't know what to tell you when things don't go as planned, so that you can learn and adapt and improve on the next approach. That's where I come in.
I stand beside you on the street and hold you to it at the moment you'd normally walk past her.
See her, go. That gap is where every excuse you've ever made got built. With me next to you, you don't get those 3 seconds.
What's going wrong happens in the first 10 seconds, and you can't see it from inside your own head. I tell you what to fix the second you're done, and you go straight back in while it's fresh.
Who I am
In med school I watched guys around me talk to women like it was nothing. They weren't better looking, smarter or more successful than me. They just did it.
Me? I'd see her, know I should go over, and walk past. The only dates I got came from apps or friends setting me up, and even then my dating life was a joke. Inside I felt confident. Out loud I could barely get a sentence out.
So I got coached. Thousands of reps later, and 8 years teaching it across 4 continents, here I am.
I'm not built different. I learnt the skill and put myself through the fire over and over again. High-level social skills come down to learning and repetition. Confidence isn't something you stumble into. You earn it through competence.

Do it wrong 500 times and all you've built is a habit.
Marc's write-up goes here.
Marc's write-up goes here.
Marc's write-up goes here.
The two programmes
If we get on a call and decide you're in, this is what's included.
Every session starts with a debrief, where I find the one thing that's actually stopping you. It's almost never the thing you told me on the call. Then you approach, I watch, and before your next one you know exactly what to change.
One-on-one immersion
Group bootcamp (I pair you with other students)
Both include the 7 Guides of Fluid Confidence
Book your intro call now and I'll tell you straight which is the right fit for you.
Who this is for
I can't walk over for you. I'll be right there beside you, I'll see what's actually going wrong, and I'll tell you before your next approach. The only real variable is you.
Not ready yet? Join the Cold Approach Academy on Skool and get on the waitlist for coaching.
Before you book
It depends on what you need, and we talk about that first. On the call I'll tell you which of the two is right for you and what it costs.
You're paying for 8 years of me standing next to men exactly like you, so I can see in your first approach what took me hundreds of my own to see.
Now price it the other way. How many years have you been getting ready? Add up the courses, the app subscriptions and the nights out where you went home without saying a word, and put your own hourly rate on that time. That's the bill you've already paid, and you're still standing there.
It's 2 or 3 days. You've found time for everything else in your life, and that's why you're the guy this is for.
If it's not a priority, tell me what is, because it's the one thing you've told yourself you'd fix next year, every year. If you're too busy to fix it at 32, you'll be too busy at 45.
In a few days I won't make you a master, and I'm not going to tell you I will. What I can do is get you past the walk-up for good.
Once you've walked up enough times with me correcting every single one, the excuse stops working, because you've seen what it actually was. From there it's reps, and that's what the months after are for.
You've got my personal number for 3 months on the immersion, or WhatsApp every day for 4 weeks on the bootcamp, plus the calls. You send me your recorded interactions and I tell you what to fix before the next one.
The men who send me their reps every week keep improving. The men who go quiet stay where they are.
You bought information and treated the purchase as the action. What you've never had is someone standing next to you at the exact moment you're about to walk past her, who won't let you.
Here you're on a street, approaching, with me correcting you live.
I get why you'd want to, and it's the reason you're still where you are. A screen can't stand next to you at the moment you're about to walk past her.
The pressure of me being there is the thing that works. In person, full stop.
I ask you a few questions and tell you which of the two is right for you. We decide there and then.
On the street, in a real city, day and night. The form asks which city you're in, and we settle where on the call.
Start in the Cold Approach Academy. There are men in there putting up their reps every week, and it's the best place I know to get your first ones in. Come back in 30 days.
It's a short form to see where you're at and what city you're in. If you qualify, you go straight to my calendar and pick a time for a call with me.
On the call I ask you a few questions and tell you which of the two is right for you. We decide there and then.
Not quite there yet? Start in the Cold Approach Academy and come back in 30 days.